Why is it that men don’t understand plain English? I don’t mean to overreact (and I say that as I know that any man reading this will say, another woman overreacting!). Or is it really just me as I am led to believe?
He will say oh ‘it's her time of month’ or ‘it's always about you’, aggghhhh. How frustrating are men sometimes!!
Men see things in black and white. Since the time of Adam and Eve Adam was off killing for their dinner and Eve was back at base making a nice colourful camp, filled with nice flowers and comfortable grass for her beloved to lay his weary body on. I mean what is all that about? Adam thinks, food, woman, and bed. Eve thinks love, romance, food, the love of her life, cuddles and chats long into the night!!! That is just how it is. At ‘our time of month’ as so many men put it, us women find we usually need a little bit more than we normally get in terms of love and affection. Do you think our cave men have a clue? In short – No.
But what I want to know is why don’t they understand our needs just a little bit more?? Why is it every month, when they know how we feel and what we crave, they can’t add two and two together and actually make a small sacrifice to make us feel better and in most cases more secure?
You say to him ‘I just want you to say you need me’ or ‘I need you to tell me how much you love me’. I mean it doesn’t get much more black and white. But no, all he sees is that ‘here she is being difficult again and I’m going to do the opposite just to show her that she can’t get her own way’. Again aaaggggghhhhh. Women are known to be understanding creatures, a lot more understanding than men and that’s for sure. All they have to do is sniffle and we are holding a tissue under their noses. Is it that we are giving in the hope we will get back?
So the next time you are texting your partner trying to let him see you are mad in the hope that he will cop on as you only put in two kisses as opposed to 5, he won’t, he does not understand and he most probably never will. He will see these things as you ‘trying to change him’. This article does seem like a bad case of relationship troubles but at the end of the day men and women could not be more different in every relationship. Men are black and white and women are full of colour. Its just sometimes blending the two mix of colours doesn’t always have the shade you want!