For example there is the notion, in my small opinion, that girls have to be tall and lanky with a swelte figure or if they are not tall, then they need to be small with big boobs and a nice bum.

Really when all of this is said and done, it all falls apart when love hits you or so I am told for seemingly the cliché is that love is blind.  That is difficult when a guy sizes you up and reads the lines on your face even though his is like a crinkly package himself.  Basically in this unfair world of ours, a girl is not to get urges to be stomped out by a cigarette butt whereas a guy doesn’t really have to account for himself in the beauty stakes.  This is of course only my opinion as you are entitled to yours. 

My beliefs are true when applied to the celebrities.  Basically men like Colin Farrell and the like can smoke their head off whereas women in Hollywood tend to preserve their looks in order to last the pace.  For the men, however, the harder they go at it such as rail roaders like our own Colin Farrell, it seems the more attractive they are.  The more often he ends up in rehab is the way to go and particularly to give his acting career the umph it seems to need at present.

CK